What Is Generational Healing (And Why It Might Be the Missing Link in Your Wellness Journey)

Jun 08, 2025

Imagine this: you’re doing all the things.
You’ve cleaned up your diet, stocked your shelves with herbal teas and adaptogens, you’ve journaled your way through a stack of notebooks, and your meditation app knows your voice by now.

And yet… something still feels off.
Like no matter how much you heal, there’s this quiet, lingering weight you can’t quite name.

Let me introduce you to the idea that changed everything for me (and my clients):
Generational healing.

So, what is generational healing?

Generational healing is the process of recognizing and releasing emotional wounds, patterns, and beliefs that didn’t start with you—they were passed down from the generations before you. Think of it like emotional DNA.

It’s not just what you inherited physically (grandma’s cheekbones, dad’s metabolism)—it’s also the emotional stories:

  • The fear of not being enough

  • The pattern of people-pleasing

  • The money anxiety that hits every time you try to raise your rates

  • The inability to rest without guilt

These things didn’t magically appear one day. They were woven into your family line, often unconsciously, and now… it’s your turn to notice.

Let me tell you a quick story…

I once worked with a woman (we’ll call her Sarah) who had struggled her whole life with feeling like she had to earn love. She was the overachiever, the one who always had it together, the “strong one” in her family.

During one of our sessions, she realized something powerful: her mother had also carried that pressure. And so did her grandmother. Each woman in her line had learned—without saying it out loud—that love had to be earned through service, success, and self-sacrifice.

When Sarah finally saw this, it was like something cracked open. It wasn’t her burden. It was the story she’d inherited—and she had the power to rewrite it.

That, my friend, is the heart of generational healing.

Why this might be the missing link in your wellness journey

You can do all the surface-level self-care, and don’t get me wrong—it matters.
But when the same struggles keep looping, when the same emotions keep bubbling up out of nowhere, it might be time to look a layer deeper.

Generational healing bridges the gap between where you are now and where you want to be.
It offers you the ability to:

  • Understand why certain patterns feel so hard to break

  • Release emotional baggage that was never yours to carry

  • Create space for a new legacy—one rooted in freedom, wholeness, and peace

Because here's the thing: you’re not just healing for yourself.
You’re healing through yourself—for everyone who came before you, and everyone who comes after.

Pretty powerful, right?

Grab your tea, your journal, and your brave heart…

Generational healing isn’t always easy. But it’s worth it.
Because once you start seeing these patterns for what they are, you get to make a new choice.

And that, my love, is the beginning of something truly beautiful.

Want to explore this more?
If something stirred in you while reading this—trust that nudge.
Generational healing is deep work, but you don’t have to walk it alone. I love supporting others on this path, and if you're curious about where to start or simply want to share your story, my inbox is always open. You can reach me at [email protected]

With so much love (and maybe a little ancestral sass),
Amanda